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Why men are dumb and women are drudges

I’d hate to be an advertising executive. You have 30 seconds to make your product sound appealing, make it memorable and make it sound like it’s worth buying. And you have to do this without offending too many people.

It’s that last bit that so many advertisers seem to fall down on. In particular it seems difficult for advertisers to make a tv advert that isn’t sexist in some way, shape or form. Of course there are some  – I don’t think I’ve seen a sexist toothpaste advert, for example. Or a sexist advert for denture adhesive. But a lot of tv adverts for alcohol, deodorant, perfume and household products (among other things) are irritatingly sexist. A lot of them are obviously sexist against women and of course that pisses me off. But more frequently now these days there are adverts are sexist against men and there are even those that manage to alienate both sexes. That’s quite an achievement!

Example #1. An advert for a high street chemist. An obviously unwell woman is stumbling along, laden with heavy shopping. She meets friends and informs them that her male partner is in bed with a cold, poor lamb, while she’s just going about everyday business.

Example #2. Adverts for supermarkets, especially at Christmas. The woman is seen doing everything (shopping, cooking, cleaning, caring for the children etc) while the man watches football, drinks in the pub or plays computer games.

Example #3. An advert for an oven cleaner. Features a confused looking man and the tagline is something like “So easy even a man can do it”.

Example #4. Advert for a male deodorant popular with teenage boys. Typically involves a male deemed unattractive until he sprays himself with the magic stinky stuff, at which point he becomes irresistible to the (often scantily-clad) women in the vicinity.

There are many more examples of course, these are merely the first few that come to mind. I know that a lot of people may say that they’re just adverts, they reflect how life is for a lot of people (especially in relation to the supermarket ads) and that they’re harmless. But are they really? When you look at these adverts together the message that comes across is “Women are drudges/only valued if wearing a string bikini” and “Men are dumb/incapable of housework/unable to attract women unless they smell like a 14 year old’s PE kit”. How is this helpful to either gender?

Even my 3 year old has noticed. She got very irate at the supermarket adverts over Christmas, asking why the daddy wasn’t doing anything, daddies can cook and tidy and look after children too. But then she sees her parents sharing the housework and childcare and as yet has no idea that there are stereotypical male and female roles.

I’m not being critical of anyone for whom these adverts reflect reality, btw. But in the 21st century when women are still slowly clawing their way towards equality and more men are becoming stay-at-home parents, why do advertising companies insist on promoting such sexist twaddle? Why encourage our daughters to grow up thinking that their main value lies in how good they look in a bikini or how well they can cook a roast dinner? Why encourage our sons to think that men should be lazy and unable to take care of themselves, their homes and their children?

I want to see adverts that don’t feature a dumb dad’ or ‘lazy male partner’. I want to see adverts that don’t use gratuitous shots of half-naked women to sell their product, or suggest that only women can do housework. I want to see adverts that don’t use lazy, outdated stereotypes and that actually reflect modern life instead of 1950s claptrap.

And don’t get me started on adverts for children’s products – I shall save that rant for another day. 😉

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